C-section went ok, but I seem to have had a lot of nerves cut so my recovery is now longer (and I hope I won’t get permanent damages). I also feel that the surgeon could have done a better job on the scar, I now have to do scar massages with a physiotherapist to ease it and reduce the associated pain.
For my next baby, I would really much prefer getting a c-section somewhere else due to this chronic pain and lack of care for my recovery in the long run.
Also, for a service that says that they want to facilitate breastfeeding, not being able to have its partner at night is counter effective. For instance, if you need to start your milk production with hand expressing or pumping, you need someone you feel comfortable with to take care of your baby in the meantime. Nurses can’t make you feel comfortable to do so for long. They are busy, so you don’t feel at ease to call them repeatedly to care for the baby for 30 min every other hours to have the time to work on the milk production during the night. Plus you feel pressured having the nurse/midwife next to you that is looking at what you’re doing and commenting on how you do stuffs (and all nurses have different, often contradictory, advice).
Having your partner helping you with the rest of the baby care at night would greatly help women making the investment to be on a good breastfeeding track. Overall, I hope I will be able to move to a bigger city to have my next c-section in a better service.
"ELCS experience"
About: Royal Devon & Exeter Hospital (Wonford) / Maternity Royal Devon & Exeter Hospital (Wonford) Maternity EX2 5DW
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