"Will there ever be a change?"

I went to a and e as I had gone numb on my bottom and my lady parts making me have incontinence and was sent home with a water infection being told I can wait a week to see the orthopaedic doctor. I went the week later and was told I need a operation there and then. I had my op 2 days later as I have 2 children to sort out. After the op I am still left with a numb bum and lady parts and I still have incontinence both way. It is 12 month on and there is no change. Will there ever be a change? Thank you for your time.