"Miscarriage"

About: Frimley Park Hospital (Frimley)

This is my fifth complaint and I haven't heard anything back! I am extremely angry and fed up and would like an explaination as to why this happened to me and why no one is responding to my complaints! I have better things to do with my life than to complain about the poor service and lack of trust I have within the NHS! I was 11weeks pregnant when I had to go into hospital and I had serve morning sickness (which was lasting all day). I wasn't keeping any food down, I wasn't able to work and definitely wasn't even able to get out of bed. My friend laura had took me to a&e because of this. I went there at about 9:00am. I got seen to within an hour and a half whilst vomitting and not being able to stand properly. I got told to take a urine test and as well as been given a grey bucket to vomit in. At about 11am I was given a room in stay in where I got bloods taken and also have been given fluids which I was vomitting back out. Anyway, I had three different people come in the space of five hours and every single person I had to explain what was going on which is incredibly frustrating. In the evening, I had a lady come in and she gave me a card with food on it. I explained to the lady that I cannot eat or drink anything, as I was being sick and that I wasn't up to attempting to it. She came back in about half an hour later, rolled her eyes at me and ticked the boxes anyway and gave me food. Not only that but when she came in to collect the food, she was rude and asked me why haven't ate anything and said 'what a waste of food'! The next problem I had was another doctober came in and explained to me what was wrong and that I was being moved. At 11:30pm I got moved to another ward. I was tired and didn't have the energy to do this. At about 1am, i got woken up for an injection and had to explain my symptoms! Which is ridiculous. The part I am most angry about is that I was in the hospital for 3 days feeling no better whateverso. The consultant that I saw was arrogant and didn't listen me at all! When she said she was going to discharge me, I told her I wasn't feel any better. And her response was that, if it happens to me again then come to a&e. The next day, I miscarried my baby and still to this day I have never forgotten about it. Not only that but how no one has bothered to explain to me why the consultant let me go after I told her I wasn't any better. I have never ever felt so disheartened and so depressed in my life and even today which is 01/12/2013 I feel like something has died inside of me. I know this complaint will not get my baby back but all I want to know is why no one has bothered to even reply to my messages or something back at least!

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